Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in bed with… herself for a raw, unfiltered solo episode catching you up on everything from life on a Temptation Cruise to her evolving dating standards, sexual boundaries, and relationship mindset.

Alexa shares what it’s like attending a Temptation/Desire-style cruise solo for the first time (people-watching couples, navigating swinger culture, and breaking down exactly how playrooms, workshops, and non-monogamous dynamics work in real life). 

She dives into her personal shift away from casual sex and into intentional dating, explaining why she’s now prioritizing emotional connection, aftercare, and partners who genuinely meet her needs, especially when it comes to oral sex. 

The episode explores deeper questions around monogamy vs. non-monogamy, whether one partner can meet all your needs, and how exposure to different relationship styles can expand your perspective, whether you ever practice them or not. She also shares behind-the-scenes insights into her workshops, from pussy worship to anal education, and what it’s like teaching pleasure in a fully immersive, hands-on environment.


Topics Covered

  • Swinger cruise culture: Temptation & Desire breakdown
  • Playroom rules, dynamics, and etiquette
  • Workshops: pussy worship, anal 101, handjob techniques
  • Observing newbies vs experienced couples in non-monogamy
  • Community, connection, and friendships on lifestyle cruises
  • Using pleasure and joy as a form of balance in a difficult world
  • Transition from casual sex to intentional dating
  • Sexual dissatisfaction and unmet needs in casual dynamics
  • The importance of oral sex and prioritizing female pleasure
  • The orgasm gap and stimulation differences during penetration
  • “Real eater only” mindset and not settling sexually
  • Monogamy vs non-monogamy reflections
  • Fluid relationship identities and changing over time
  • Learning from different relationship structures
  • Expanding social circles: queer, kinky, celibate, non-monogamous perspectives
  • Masturbation and solo pleasure practices
  • Behind-the-scenes of sex workshops and teaching live experiences
  • STI education gaps and common fears
  • Orgies, private room dynamics, and cruise experiences
  • Community vs sex focus in lifestyle spaces
  • Building a career as a sex educator and coach



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