Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in bed with sex educator Jill Lissner, aka @sexedprincesss, forconversation about performative sex, pleasure, body image, consent, communication, and the weird sex trends taking over the internet.


Topics covered:

  • Performative sex and what it means
  • Pleasure vs. performance
  • Authentic/non-performative sex
  • Gendered expectations around appearance
  • Penis size, erections and stamina
  • Moaning and performing sounds
  • Staying quiet because of shame or expectations
  • Soft penises and body acceptance
  • Decentering penetration
  • Mutual masturbation and vulnerability
  • Porn as a performance
  • Being perceived and worrying how you look
  • Likeability, acceptance and social performance
  • Reducing performance anxiety through exposure
  • “Spectatoring” during sex
  • Advocating for your needs during sex
  • Defaulting to giving as a performance
  • Preference vs. performance
  • Orgasm faces
  • “Cracked” and modern sexual terminology
  • Active participation in sex
  • Riding/on-top positions and performing for appearance
  • Recording sexual experiences
  • Penetration as a performance expectation
  • Critical thinking about sexual norms
  • Internet sex trends
  • Ball maxing/scrotum maxing
  • Scrotum size and attraction
  • How sexual trends spread online
  • The need for more scientific research on emerging sex trends


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