In this powerful episode of Autism for Badass Moms, host Rashidah speaks with Jessica Pereira from the Bronx, NY, about raising her daughter Ja’Niyah, who was diagnosed with autism at age 2.5. Jessica shares how her bond with her sister, Chasity, evolved into a deeply connected co-parenting partnership rooted in unconditional love, advocacy, and autism acceptance.
Together, they have created a home where stimming is welcomed, communication in all forms is honored, and Ja’Niyah is embraced exactly as she is. This heartfelt conversation explores sisterhood, support, neurodiversity, and helping autistic children thrive without forcing them into conventional molds.
In this episode, we discuss:
00:00 Badass Moms Welcome
00:55 Why Moms Need Support
03:02 Meet Jessica Pereira
04:52 Bronx Beginnings
05:53 Early Signs and Referral
08:27 Diagnosis Day and Next Steps
10:44 Mom Guilt and Sister Steps Up
14:38 Single Mom Survival Mode
15:57 School Trauma and Homeschool Choice
19:04 Aggression and Communication Tools
21:51 Sister Co Parenting System
28:05 Acceptance Stimming and Public Stares
30:13 Future Fears and Big Love
33:52 Routine Changes and Respite
35:45 Sister as Lifeline
38:28 Dating and Limited Support
40:35 ADHD and Mental Health
43:45 IEP and School Struggles
46:38 Gratitude and Softening Up
49:02 Mourning Expectations
53:16 Badass Mom Reality
57:08 Advice to Keep Going
01:00:58 What Makes Her Badass
01:03:38 Closing and Call to Action
Connect with Jessica:
Instagram: www.instagram.com/crzyfantasy128
Facebook: Jessica Janette
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