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Can a man genuinely love his wife and still betray her?
After years of hearing what married men say privately, I’ve learned that love, desire, and commitment are not always experienced as the same thing.
In this episode, I explore why outside attraction does not necessarily mean a man wants to replace his wife, how hidden fantasies and changing identities affect relationships, and why secrecy often protects the person keeping the secret more than the partner he claims to protect.
I also discuss sexual compatibility, consensually outsourcing desires, ethical non-monogamy, and the difference between experiencing desire and violating a relationship agreement.
Understanding his behavior does not mean I’m excusing it. His love may be real, but love alone is not enough to create a healthy relationship.
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