BONUS: Stop Blaming Sex Workers for Your Husband’s Choices

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A woman told me that women like me “play a role” in hurting other women because her husband had been seeing a sex worker.

My question is: Why are you talking to me instead of talking to him?

In this commentary, I’m sharing what years in the adult industry have taught me about why some men seek sex workers, what they may be looking for in fantasy spaces, and why blaming the woman doesn’t answer the bigger question: Why did he go looking in the first place?

I’m not excusing cheating. I’m interested in understanding what may be happening underneath the behavior.

📖 Read the full What He’s Thinking article:
Your Husband Saw a Sex Worker. Why Are You Blaming Her?

What do you think? Is the sex worker responsible for a married client's choices, or does that responsibility belong to the person who made the commitment? Let me know in the comments.

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