"Nothing. I'm fine." If those three words have become your household's unofficial motto, this episode is for you.
Most couples come to me saying they have a communication problem. When we dig a little deeper, it's almost always resentment: years of unspoken needs, quiet sacrifices, and arguments you've had a hundred times in your head at 2am but never out loud with your partner.
This week, I sit down with life coach Jenny Maxwell, who moved her family from Dublin to Chicago while her husband kept touring for weeks at a time. Jenny is refreshingly honest about how people pleasing and hyper-independence turned into a whole lot of resentment (plus a fair amount of cupboard slamming). She also shares what finally shifted when she realized she was the common denominator.
In this episode, you'll discover:
Why resentment is often frustration that your partner gives themselves permission to do what you wish you could
How the "6 or 9" exercise helps couples stop fighting about who's right
Why trading judgment for curiosity makes room for empathy
The one question to ask your partner when you're both running on empty
A simple three-part way to ask for what you need: appreciation, the need, and the benefit for you both
How apathy signals relationship burnout, and why catching it early matters
If you've been handing everyone the king-size bed at the Hilton and filet mignon every night, this conversation will help you change course without blowing everything up.
🎧 Listen to the full episode now to hear how Jenny stopped saying "it's fine" and started saying what she needed.se double-check them.
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