A 55-year-old married man writes in with a dilemma: he loves his wife, doesn’t want to hurt her, and says they have a good life together. But the sex and intimacy have disappeared, and he’s been getting that part of his life elsewhere.
Now he doesn’t know what to do. He doesn’t want to hurt his wife, but he knows something has to change. Does he stay because after all these years he owes it to her and the life they’ve built together? Does he admit he’s been cheating, knowing the truth could devastate her? Or does he leave, even though he still loves her?
He doesn’t want another relationship or to replace his wife. But he also doesn’t want to accept a life without sex, affection, or feeling desired.
Is cheating ever understandable when intimacy has disappeared from a marriage? Is keeping the secret actually protecting his wife or protecting himself? And can you genuinely love someone while repeatedly cheating on them?
In this episode, Mel and Suzie get into love, sex, loyalty, infidelity, and what we really owe someone after decades together.
Stay, confess, or leave. What would you tell him to do?
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