What do men really need to understand about women, and what actually creates attraction?Dating coach Scot McKay joins me for a candid conversation about attraction, confidence, flirting, and what men and women often misunderstand about each other. We talk about how men can stand out even if they’re shorter or don’t look like George Clooney, the real purpose of a first date, and how men can let their guard down so women feel comfortable around them.Scot also shares his approach to flirting, why asking someone what they’re looking for can be surprisingly powerful, and what women can do when they genuinely want to attract a great man. Plus, we get into “hot girl privilege,” dating expectations, and practical advice for creating real chemistry and connection.Whether you're a man trying to better understand women or a woman wondering how men experience dating, this episode offers a fun look at attraction from both sides.In 2005 Scot McKay founded X & Y Communications. Nowadays, as host of the popular Mountain Top Podcast, he is one of the most recognized and effective relationship strategists for both men and women on the global stage. He is also a frequent contributor to talk radio shows nationwide. Scot travels the world with his wife and fellow coach Emily McKay, while worldschooling their two youngest kids and hitting the national BMX racing circuit together. Scot and Emily have been to over 100 countries, and run a travel blog called Wing-It Worldwide.https://www.deservewhatyouwant.comhttps://www.mountaintoppodcast.com
0:00 Intro to Scot McKay 4:15 How to understand women and attract them7:30 Women like when you ask what they’re looking for10:39 How to stand out as a shorter man or not George Clooney19:06 The purpose of a 1st date19:39 How do men let their guard down and let the woman feel comfortable?24:08 How Scot teaches flirting34:32 Women who want a man should say she wants a man36:40 Hot girl privilege37:30 How should women attract men?41:57 One last dating tipJoin The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/p...Call May for help: (310) 867-0851Email: may@twoasianmatchmakers.comWebsite: www.twoasianmatchmakers.comFacebook Page: / twoasianmatchmakers Instagram: / matchmakermay Tiktok: / asianmatchmaker88 LinkedIn: / mayhui ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCASTWhat does Matchmaker May Do?You know how high-net-worth men are accomplished in their careers but too busy to date? They value time more than money, yet struggle to find meaningful connection. What I do is learn who they want to attract, screen the women for them, and make the introductions—so instead of wasting time, they meet the right woman and fall in love.May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating Coach. May is the founder of Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking agency. Since 2009, May has helped successful men who appreciate Asian culture and value meaningful connection find their ideal Asian partner in the United States and Asia.
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