Hello beautiful soul fam. Today we’re opening the Berlin archives for a tender, spicy and deeply alive conversation with the deliciously wise Quinn Kush.
Quinn is a Somatic Intimacy Educator, Pleasure and Embodiment Facilitator, and the founder of Tender Core, a body of work devoted to reclaiming touch, intimacy and pleasure as pathways back to self-love.
At the heart of this episode is a simple but powerful truth: pleasure is not separate from self-love. It is one of the most direct ways into it. Not as a cute idea, but as something we learn to feel, build and sustain through the body.
Together, we explore pleasure and sexuality as gateways into truth, creativity and wholeness, especially when we’re willing to meet taboo, shame and early conditioning with curiosity instead of collapse.
Quinn shares what actually creates safety, how to move towards true embodied consent, and how her own journey through addiction, rock-bottom moments and devotion transformed hedonism and suffering into deep self-intimacy.
We also unpack touch as a human need, consent as a life practice, people-pleasing, inner dom energy, relationship anarchy, queer liberation, and why slowing down enough to feel is one of the most rebellious things we can do in a world addicted to speed.
You’ll leave with practical at-home rituals, delicious resources, and a whole new lens on how to love, touch, relate and live with more safety, sensation, freedom and truth.
Enjoy fam, this one is nourishing for the soul.
Chapters:
(02:45) Queer Berlin Welcome
(02:55) What Is a Pleasure Artist?
(03:53) Pleasure Versus Eroticism
(05:44) Eros Beyond Mechanics
(07:13) Tender Core Origins
(08:07) Touch, Shame and Healing
(11:26) Why Pleasure Work Matters
(15:17) Freedom, Barriers and Safety
(18:39) Creating Safe Containers
(20:20) Presence, Breath and Sensation
(23:03) Group Witnessing and Play
(27:00) Consent as a Life Skill
(30:09) Consent in Real Time
(31:46) People-Pleasing to Inner Dom
(32:24) Why Devote Life to Pleasure
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