Back in episode 154/155, JP told us about her marriage to a man she now simply calls "exhole." We left that story mid-sentence — she was still deep in the trenches of her divorce, and we promised to bring her back once it was over.
It's over now.
But "over" doesn't mean what you'd think.
What follows is a year-long descent into a family court system that JP says is built to protect abusers, not survivors — and a masterclass in exactly how far a narcissist will go to win.
⚖️ A biased judge who tells the victim to pay HER abuser 📧 A three-page email calling her "delusional" — with an insult hidden in the password 💍 A secret joint tax filing designed to dodge financial disclosure 💰 A $19,000 "incentive" that was really a manipulation tactic 🏦 Bankruptcy, maxed-out credit cards, and a legal fight funded by her late grandmother's inheritance 🎓 Her ex reporting their own 18-year-old daughter to the federal government for "fraud" — over a college financial aid form 🏡 A breakdown in the backyard that becomes the turning point of her entire fight
And just when she'd given up completely, salvation shows up in the most unexpected place: a jacuzzi at a cancer survivors' retreat.
This is the episode about what happens after the divorce is "final" — when the paperwork ends but the manipulation doesn't.
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⚖️ Disclaimer (because our lawyers make us say this): Dimming The Gaslight is based entirely on true events—except for the stuff we totally made up. Names, locations, and other identifying details have been changed. If you think we’re talking about you in this podcast… newsflash: you’re the narcissist.
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