Stop Arguing About the Past: The SWYP Method - It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict People | Lyssna här

High conflict arguments follow a script: relitigate the past, assign blame, get nowhere.

Bill Eddy, LCSW, JD, and Megan Hunter, MBA, introduce SWYP, a three-step method for turning that pattern into a workable proposal, alongside the CARS Method and tips for negotiating with bullies.

It's All Your Fault is produced by TruStory FM.

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SWYP: So, What’s Your Proposal? (pre-orders available now - will ship November 3)

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Important Notice: Our discussions focus on behavioral patterns rather than diagnoses. For specific legal or therapeutic guidance, please consult qualified professionals in your area.

(00:00) - Welcome to It's All Your Fault
(00:41) - Reaching Agreements
(01:33) - So What’s Your Proposal?
(04:16) - Situations to Use This
(06:29) - Arguments vs. Proposals
(10:19) - SLIC, BIFF, EAR, and SWYP
(13:22) - Bill’s Book
(13:53) - SWYP and CARS
(16:56) - Avoiding the Argument
(20:54) - Pre-Empting Argumentative Personalities
(27:49) - Bullies
(34:57) - Last Thoughts on SWYP
(40:00) - Wrap Up

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