You set a number years ago. The exit, the money, the reputation you wanted to have earned. You then reached it.
So why doesn't the life feel the way you thought it would?
Here's what most people get wrong about that flatness. They read it as a verdict — like they climbed the wrong mountain, wanted the wrong things — and the fix is always the same. Downshift. Step back. Want less.
That's not just wrong. It guarantees you stay stuck, plus bored.
The problem was never what you built. It's the engine you built it with. And that engine has a setting almost no one knows they can change.
This episode shows you which setting you're running right now, what it's really been giving you, and how to change it.
You don't need less ambition. You've never needed less ambition.
Listen now.
Show Highlights Include:
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3 settings of your "ambition engine" and why most achievers live their entire life without realizing that you can change the setting on it (1:13)
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The insidious "F-word" that's responsible for both your success and your inability to relax and enjoy it (2:07)
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Feel like you climbed up the wrong mountain, played out the wrong career, or even picked the wrong marriage? Here's what these feelings are trying to tell you… (4:03)
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How your ambition fuels itself on your deep, subconscious feelings of not being worthy (and how this leads to burnout, exhaustion, and even depression) (6:29)
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Why you feel like you have to hustle twice as hard for half the relief (12:14)
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5 symptoms that you're being quietly run by "Exhausted Success" because it's impossible to notice by yourself alone (12:58)
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How to stop running your life on a fuel with a shelf life by switching to the fuel of "Integrated Success" (17:27)
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The cold, hard truth about why you'll never win your way to worth (and why this can be a great thing) (20:02)
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