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Your sex life isn't broken, it's just gone quiet. And quiet is fixable.
This week I'm handing you an actual plan: a 31-day sex challenge to reignite desire, reconnect, and get curious again, no dramatic overhaul, no painful heart-to-heart, just one small, low-pressure invitation at a time. My guest is Alicia Sinclair, a certified sex educator with nearly 25 years in intimate wellness, founder and CEO of COTR (the company behind B-Vibe and Le Wand), and 2026 XBIZ Sexpert of the Year. Together we built you a real calendar you can follow, one nudge a day.
In this episode, we break down:
- Why sex goes quiet in long-term relationships (hint: it's almost never the love)
- The biggest mistake couples make when they try to spice things up, and how it backfires
- The yes/no/maybe list: the single best place to start when you're in a rut
- How to share a fantasy, or receive one, without shutting each other down
- How to bring in toys and novelty without feeling overwhelmed
- How to map a whole month, from conversation to sensation to power play to blending it all
Whether you've been together fifteen years or fifteen days, you'll have somewhere to start tonight, and a whole month mapped out after that. Most days cost nothing. All of them are low-pressure.
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Guest: Alicia Sinclair, @aliciasinclair. Her brands: B-Vibe, Le Wand, Cowgirl, and Together Toys.
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