Date Your Spouse Like You’re Still Learning Them | After Hours With Amanda Season 5 - Ep. 11

In this episode, I’m talking about the sweetest Disney Pandora surprise, why the Tiana charm felt like a hug from my mom and big J, and how those little glimmers can remind us to keep going when life does not look how we pictured it.

Then we get into marriage, miscommunication, keeping score, serving each other when we are both tired, and what it really means to date your spouse like you are still learning them. I’m not speaking as an expert. I’m just sharing what I’m learning in real time with Blake, life, grief, dreams, and all the tiny chaos in between.

00:00 We Took a Week Off
01:00 Laguna Beach and a Little Disclaimer
02:29 The Pandora Surprise
08:25 Looking for the Princess Charms
10:42 Why Tiana Means So Much
14:26 Snail Mail From a Princess
15:18 The Charm That Felt Like a Hug
17:45 Keep Going When You Feel Behind
20:16 You Are Right Where You Need to Be
21:46 When the Emotional Board Turns Back On
25:10 Marriage, Miscommunication, and No Judgment
26:59 Date Your Spouse Like You’re Still Learning Them
29:34 Giving All Day and Keeping Score
33:41 Coming Back With a Servant’s Heart
41:28 Learning Each Other Again
45:05 The Heart Posture of Repair
48:09 The Boxes We Keep Unpacking
51:03 Glimmers, Prayer, and Encouragement