In this episode, I'm joined by Dr. Teela Tomassetti, who shares her deeply personal experience of birth trauma, medical neglect and obstetric violence. Teela opens up about the traumatic birth of her daughter, the lasting physical and emotional impact of feeling unheard during labour, and how these experiences shaped both her personal life and professional work supporting survivors of reproductive trauma.
We explore what birth trauma really is, how trauma affects the nervous system long after birth, and why partners can experience trauma too. Teela also introduces the principles of narrative therapy, sharing practical ways parents can begin to separate themselves from their trauma and move towards healing after difficult birth experiences.
In this episode, we talk about:
- Birth trauma, medical neglect and obstetric violence
- How birth trauma can affect the nervous system, relationships and intimacy
- Why partners can experience trauma and PTSD after witnessing a traumatic birth
- The long-term emotional impact of traumatic birth experiences
- How narrative therapy can support healing and help parents reclaim their story
Resources & links mentioned in this episode:
The NICU Space Community
An online support space for NICU parents at all stages of their journey. Inside you'll find specialist resources, coping tools and connection with parents who understand what this experience can feel like.
Stay connected
Instagram: @miraclemoonuk
Website: miraclemoon.co.uk
The NICU Space community: The NICU Space
Connect with our guest, Teela
Instagram: @theteaonbirthtrauma
Website: Reproductive & Perinatal Trauma Center
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