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You go for a drink with a buddy, and he unloads what’s happened with his girl. A lot of push-pull, ignored texts, mood swings, drama. He wonders what’s going through her mind, and enlists your help in figuring her out too.
What do you say?
Do you engage your own anxious brainwaves, and try and decipher her motives? Or do you tackle the real issue on display:
Never mind the woman… what’s going on with you?
I don’t believe pondering a woman’s motives and feelings is entirely a fool’s game. But it’s amazing how men get caught in this loop. All day, all month, thinking of her, wondering what to text, how to approach the issue, how to get what you want without losing the little you already have.
We all know what happens when we overthink things. Action ends up awkward. Whatever we end up saying or doing, it seems to drive her away.
When it comes to drama, pulling away, mixed messages, heightened emotions, many men feel a subtle distress. And it’s the distress that drives these endless questions.
What if, instead of the week lost chasing her in your mind, you could find tranquility amidst the storm? Today’s episode is about exactly that.
Because in the end, 90% of drama resolves by itself. Let her unravel and come to you in good time.
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Ars Amorata is a philosophy of beauty. It is a way of life. It is not a religion. It is a belief system, similar to the way one might call Stoicism a belief system or a way of life. It is a layer that exists (or not) below all religion and all social structures. And it belongs to all of you.
Philosophers throughout the ages have argued whether beauty is objective or subjective, but in my view, beauty is neither. It is neither inherent as a property of the object (the objective view) nor is it in the eye of the beholder (the subjective view). Beauty is a third thing altogether.
Beauty is prime. It stands alone. It is a thing apart, in Kant's words: a Thing-In-Itself (Ding an sich). Beauty emanates from what Aristotle called the Unmoved Mover, what Plotinus called The One, what scientists call the Big Bang, and what John in the New Testament called the Word or Logos.
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