What if the argument you keep having with your husband isn’t actually about what you think it’s about?
You may be fighting about money, being late, the kids, chores, his phone, or the way he spoke to you—but underneath those everyday disagreements are deeper questions you may not even realize you’re asking.
In this episode, I’m sharing a conversation with my friend Dana Che from the Rebuilding Us Marriage Podcast about the five questions beneath every argument in marriage. Rooted in attachment science and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), these questions can help you understand why seemingly small interactions sometimes trigger such big reactions—and why years of those little moments can eventually leave a marriage feeling lonely, empty, or disconnected.
We also talk about my own marriage story, what I had to recognize about my contribution to our disconnection, why wanting to feel valued and cherished by your husband isn’t something you need to spiritualize away, and the vulnerability required to admit that you really do need each other.
If you’ve ever wondered, Why do we keep having the same argument? this episode will help you look beneath what you’re fighting about and begin recognizing what you’re actually longing for from each other.
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