You probably think your biggest problem is confidence.

But what if the real issue is that you've spent years waiting for someone else to tell you you're ready?

In this episode,I explore why so many capable leaders struggle to trust themselves—even after years of experience, education, and success. You'll learn how constantly seeking approval, permission, and validation quietly erodes self-trust and keeps you second-guessing your own judgment.

If you've ever found yourself waiting for one more credential, one more opportunity, or one more person's approval before taking action, this conversation is for you.

You'll discover:

  • Why self-trust is different from confidence
  • How childhood and workplace experiences teach us to depend on approval
  • The hidden cost of always waiting to be "chosen"
  • Practical ways to begin rebuilding trust in your own judgment

Read the companion article:
https://deniseglee.com/stop-needing-to-be-chosen/




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