What if the behavior we label as a problem is actually a dog trying to tell us something important? Lauren Sisak, founder of Sit Stay Stella, joins Collin to explore how pet care professionals can better understand anxious, reactive, and overwhelmed dogs by paying attention to what their behavior is communicating. Lauren explains her green, yellow, and red zone framework, how to recognize when a dog cannot perform a familiar behavior, and why treats, distance, and environmental changes can be powerful tools. They also discuss safer meet-and-greets, building trust without forcing interaction, and communicating clearly with clients about what their dogs actually need. Along the way, Lauren connects those same lessons to entrepreneurship, boundaries, sustainable growth, and learning to give ourselves the same grace we give the dogs in our care.
Main topics:
- Understanding canine stress signals
- Green yellow red zones
- Safer dog meet-and-greets
- Communicating expectations with clients
- Boundaries for sustainable businesses
Main takeaway: "The moment that they see the scary thing and they check in with you first, you're golden."
Trust with a dog does not always look like cuddles, perfect leash manners, or immediately accepting affection.
Sometimes, the biggest breakthrough happens when something scary appears and the dog chooses to look at you.
As Lauren Sisak explains, "The moment that they see the scary thing and they check in with you first, you're golden."
That check-in tells us the dog is beginning to see us as part of their support system. Getting there requires patience, observation, consistency, and a willingness to listen when a dog says an environment or interaction is too much.
As pet sitters and dog walkers, our job is not simply to get a dog to comply. It is to create enough safety and predictability that they learn they can work through difficult moments with us.
About our guest: Lauren Sisak is the founder of Sit Stay Stella, a dog training and concierge pet care company serving clients in the New York City area. Her work was heavily influenced by her experiences with her own dogs, including Stella, whose anxiety and reactivity led Lauren deeper into positive-reinforcement and force-free training. Today, Lauren and her team provide personalized training and pet care with an emphasis on dogs who may need additional patience, support, and individualized routines. Her approach focuses on protecting a dog's agency while helping pet parents develop practical skills that strengthen their relationship with their dogs.
Links:
Sit Stay Stella Website: sitstaystella.com
Stellar Sitter Course / Course Waitlist:https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdFjuUJ_U3vbR7aW7xb6Kz4HYJvBH4-Oi7LlXH293WWsNcChQ/viewform
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