After their recent Heaven in Business event in Dallas, Andy and Janine Mason found themselves processing both incredible testimonies and some very real disappointments.

In this episode, they unpack a practical framework for navigating those moments without allowing disappointment to turn into shame—or what Andy calls a “filthy narrative.”

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You’ll hear why it’s important not to debrief while you’re exhausted, how to separate the facts from the stories you’re telling yourself, and why wise counsel is different from both flattery and criticism. Andy and Janine also share how honest feedback helped them identify what needed to improve while still recognizing everything God had done.

Whether you’re processing a disappointing launch, a lost client, a difficult business decision, a relationship setback, or something that simply didn’t turn out as expected, this episode will help you slow down, get perspective, learn, and move forward.

In this episode:

  • Why you shouldn’t immediately debrief after a disappointment
  • Separating facts from “filthy narratives”
  • How to receive feedback without falling into shame
  • The difference between wise counsel, flattery, and criticism
  • Learning from what didn’t meet your standards
  • Recognizing what went right—not just what went wrong
  • Bringing the situation back to God and asking what He is saying
  • Moving forward with greater wisdom and clarity

Next Steps: 

  1. Save the date for the Heaven in Business Conference in Nashville: Heaveninbusiness.com/nashville
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  3. Join us at an upcoming event: Heaveninbusiness.com/events
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  5. Share this with someone you know who will be challenged and encouraged.

Timestamps:
00:00 — What do you do when things don’t go according to plan?
01:15 — What actually happened in Dallas
02:20 — Testimonies, connection & encountering God
03:30 — The power of peer masterminds and honest feedback
05:15 — Where the event didn’t meet expectations
06:45 — Empty seats and the stories we tell ourselves
08:20 — When you don’t meet your own standards
09:20 — Why you shouldn’t debrief immediately
11:45 — Give yourself 48 hours before evaluating
13:25 — Facts vs. “filthy narratives”
15:00 — Finding wise counsel instead of flattery or criticism
17:20 — What healthy feedback actually looks like
19:10 — Receiving difficult feedback from customers
20:35 — How honest feedback produced an unexpected financial win
21:30 — Bringing the situation back to God
22:30 — A simple two-column exercise to reset your perspective
24:15 — Learning without beating yourself up
26:15 — What is God saying in the middle of disappointment?
27:40 — Keep moving forward
28:30 — Save the date: Nashville 2027

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