Most couples assume the goal is to “resolve” conflict, but Dr. Tracy and Greg pull the thread on a different truth: 69% of relationship conflict is perpetual. The fight keeps repeating not because you’re broken, but because you’re two different people with different histories, nervous systems, and meanings attached to the same moment (yes, even something as small as boots in the hallway).Together, they break down three common kinds of ruptures and why the repair has to match the injury: daily attunement misses, perpetual problems, and deeper attachment injuries that keep reopening the same page in the relationship. The takeaway isn’t “never fight.” It’s learning what the conflict is really about, and practicing the kind of repair that rebuilds safety, closeness, and trust over time.
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