Enmeshment doesn’t usually start with bad intentions, it starts when a parent’s emotional needs quietly get wrapped around their child’s development. Dr. Tracy breaks down what healthy differentiation looks like across the lifespan, and why your child’s autonomy isn’t rejection, it’s growth. The goal isn’t fusion. It’s two separate people who can stay connected without guilt, pressure, or emotional obligation.Using real-life examples (including a moment with her son wanting to go to the park), Dr. Tracy highlights what keeps the parent-child bond secure without turning it into codependency: depersonalizing your child’s needs, not making them responsible for your feelings, maintaining your identity outside of parenting, and supporting their choices even when they’re not the ones you would make. The through-line is simple but not easy: be a safe place to land, not a tether they have to drag.
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