Sasha Cobra spent her twenties pouring drinks at a private cocktail bar in San Francisco — sober, vegan, healthy, and getting paid well to serve people poison. Then one Saturday morning in Golden Gate Park, she closed her eyes and saw herself doing something else entirely. She called her boss from a tea house that same afternoon and quit. She never went back.
That decision started a twenty-year path that's led her to work with thousands of people around the world on sexuality, trauma, and healing. In this episode, she and I get into what she calls Love, Truth, and Eros — three words that sound simple until you actually try to live them. Why she believes love isn't a feeling but a regulated nervous system. Why almost nobody you've ever met actually operates from truth. And why she thinks the most repressed, most misunderstood part of being human might also be the most healing.
This one goes into the body, sexuality, and trauma — and we don't tiptoe around any of it.
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CHAPTERS:
00:00 Love, Truth, and Eros: The Framework
06:58 Personal Truth vs. Societal Lies
16:59 Masculine and Feminine Energy
22:15 What Eros Really Means
32:35 Coming Back to the Body
34:23 Releasing Emotion Through the Body
42:39 Facing Emotional Overwhelm
45:57 Lovemaking as Medicine
51:48 Living in a Different Paradigm
58:51 Why No Teacher Has It All Figured Out
01:01:34 Sasha's Story: Quitting the Nightclub, Finding Her Path
01:12:41 Social Media: Tool or Poison
01:18:33 Building Community, Wrapping Up
