How do we practically approach our life with God in our ordinary, everyday life? In this episode, we’re introducing a new series on crafting a Rule of Life. Most of us already have one through the ways we structure our days and make yes/no decisions, but the invitation is to become intentional and discern it with God. We’ll talk about how this can be a life-giving practice as we build the structure, or trellis, that supports our growth. We’ll share our definition of a Modern Day Rule of Life, and begin a conversation about how to create your own. Tune in to the rest of this season for a practical guide to this practice!
Our definition of a Modern Day Rule of Life:
“A rule of life is a commitment to live your life in a pattern of behaviors, rhythms, and routines. It is crafted through discernment, in partnership with God, as you consider the way God designed you and the values He has inscribed on your heart. Once discovered and written, it serves as a tool and framework that can help you make decisions for your life and determine how best to order and align your days.” (from Do What Matters by Teresa McCloy)
00:00 Welcome and Series Intro
01:02 Why You Already Have One
03:11 Trellis and Abide Picture
05:50 Rule Means Guide
07:14 Modern Definition Origin
10:24 Modern Rule Definition
12:10 Commitment and Rhythms
15:13 Discernment and Design
17:28 Write It Down
21:08 Tool for Decisions
24:11 Resources and Next Steps
25:04 Season Wrap Up
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About Teresa McCloy:
Teresa McCloy is the founder and creator of the REALIFE Process®, a framework designed to empower individuals and groups with the tools, training, and community needed for personal and professional growth. Through the REALIFE Process®, Teresa is on a mission to help others grow in self-awareness, establish sustainable rhythms, and enhance their influence and impact by integrating faith and work into their everyday lives.
She lives with her husband of over four decades on their 5th generation family farm in central Illinois and enjoys great coffee, growing beautiful flower gardens, and traveling as much as possible. Connect with Teresa on Facebook or Instagram.
About Lindsay Sterchi:
Lindsay Sterchi is the Spiritual Formation Director at the REALIFE Process®. She also writes about habits and rhythms for the Mind, Body, and Soul for a holistic approach to spiritual growth and formation at lindsaysterchi.substack.com.
She lives with her husband Tyler and junior high-age twin daughters. She has an M.A. in Transformational Leadership from Bethel Seminary, and her background is in church ministry.
When she’s not working or spending time with her family, you’re most likely to find her reading a good book. Connect with Lindsay on Facebook or Instagram.
