How can a Rule of Life help you practice slowing in your everyday life? A Rule of Life is not a strict set of rules but a gentle guide or rhythm that supports abiding with God. The truth is, we ALL have a Rule of Life, whether we have named it or not. But if we intentionally put practices and structures in place in our everyday routines and rhythms, it can become like a trellis for a vine—structure that makes space for growth.
In this episode, we talk about noticing moments of rush, reframing ordinary activities as spiritual practices, and how sometimes it’s not adding things but removing them to create space. We’ll share some practical ideas and examples to get started in building your own Rule of Life as you make space for slowing in your own life.
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00:00 Welcome to the Podcast
00:34 Why Slowing Matters
01:18 What Is a Rule of Life
02:13 Trellis and Vine Visual
05:44 You Already Have Rhythms
06:51 The Productivity Lie
09:55 Everyday Noticing Practices
13:02 Map Your Typical Day
14:26 Lent and Habit Stacking
17:12 How to Start Simply
19:58 Noticing Changes Everything
23:01 Resources and Closing
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About Teresa McCloy:
Teresa McCloy is the founder and creator of the REALIFE Process®, a framework designed to empower individuals and groups with the tools, training, and community needed for personal and professional growth. Through the REALIFE Process®, Teresa is on a mission to help others grow in self-awareness, establish sustainable rhythms, and enhance their influence and impact by integrating faith and work into their everyday lives.
She lives with her husband of over four decades on their 5th generation family farm in central Illinois and enjoys great coffee, growing beautiful flower gardens, and traveling as much as possible. Connect with Teresa on Facebook or Instagram.
About Lindsay Sterchi:
Lindsay Sterchi is the REALIFE Practice Executive Director at the REALIFE Process®, where she leads and guides our REALIFE Practice Membership and Community. She also writes about habits and rhythms for the Mind, Body, and Soul for a holistic approach to spiritual growth and formation at lindsaysterchi.substack.com.
She lives with her husband Tyler and elementary-aged twin daughters. She has an M.A. in Transformational Leadership from Bethel Seminary, and her background is in church ministry.
When she’s not working or spending time with her family, you’re most likely to find her reading a good book. Connect with Lindsay on Facebook or Instagram.
