What if the timeline you think you should be following has very little to do with what you’re actually capable of?
My guest on this episode of Leading You, Anne-Marie “Ani” Deieso, didn’t begin what she now considers her career until she was around 40.
After making a deliberate choice to stay home and raise her children, Ani returned to work without a grand career plan. She eventually found her way into mortgage broking almost by accident, entering an industry she knew very little about while battling plenty of self-doubt.
Today, Ani is Associate Director for Victoria at Loan Market. Her career has included mortgage broking, business ownership, Macquarie Bank, business coaching and senior leadership.
In this conversation, we discuss:
- Starting a completely new career at 40
- Why confidence is often built through action
- Moving beyond “fake it till you make it”
- The lessons parenting can teach us about leadership
- Authenticity, integrity and finding your own leadership style
- Resilience and learning what you can and cannot control
- The people and moments that can change how we see ourselves
- Why fear of regret can sometimes be more powerful than fear of trying
- Why there is no arbitrary deadline on ambition or growth
Ani’s story is a wonderful example of why careers don’t need to follow a conventional timeline. Sometimes you take the next opportunity, learn something about yourself, build confidence and keep moving.
Perhaps you haven’t missed your window at all.
Timestamps
00:00 Resilience Origins
00:42 Meet Ani
02:58 Starting Work at 40
05:02 Accidental Mortgage Broking
08:16 Family Pressure and Purpose
10:53 Proving It to Yourself
13:02 Lead Her Collective Invite
13:59 Confidence and Recognition
17:11 Authentic Leadership Values
19:26 Mentors Who Backed Her
22:21 Parenting Lessons in Leadership
25:06 Resilience Tested and Rebuilt
32:03 It’s Never Too Late
34:04 Final Thanks and Wrap
Links:
Learn more about my group coaching program here
Join the Lead.Her Collective Dinner on 28th October. Reserve your seat here
Get the Clarity Compass here
Connect with Julie:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-hyde/
Instagram:@juliehydeleads
Website: https://juliehyde.com.au
Connect with Anne-Marie:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-marie-ani-deieso-a7736a57/
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