Episode #1204
Successful businessmen are used to making decisions, solving problems, and staying in control. But what happens when that same approach enters family court?
In this episode of The TPM Show, Doug Holt sits down with family law attorney April Jones to discuss why CEOs, founders, and high-performing men can struggle when divorce moves from the boardroom into the courtroom.
April brings more than 35 years of legal experience to the conversation. She is the founder and CEO of Jones Law Firm, which she built in 2000, and her firm has handled thousands of complex family law and divorce cases. She is a multi-year Super Lawyers honoree, was named an Outstanding Woman in Business by the Denver Business Journal, and serves in leadership roles connected to judicial selection in Colorado.
Doug and April discuss why the financial settlement is only one part of divorce. There is also the emotional impact, disruption to business performance, parenting time, and the reality that another person may eventually become part of your children's lives.
April explains why getting legal information early doesn't necessarily mean you've decided to divorce. Understanding what divorce could actually look like may help someone make better decisions while reconciliation is still possible.
They also address one of the biggest mistakes business owners can make: trying to hide or move assets. April explains how this can increase litigation costs, damage trust, and create additional problems in court.
The conversation ultimately returns to something men can control even before divorce becomes inevitable: changing how they show up in their marriage.
Episode Chapters
00:00 Why successful businessmen can struggle in family court
00:37 From the boardroom to the courtroom
01:00 April Jones' family law experience and credentials
03:21 Why CEOs can struggle with losing control
05:38 When charm and persuasion stop working
08:16 The hidden costs of divorce
09:13 Parenting, business, and the emotional cost of separation
11:06 How men sedate themselves during divorce
12:20 When should you speak with a family lawyer?
14:30 Why hiding assets can backfire
15:13 Free Book
16:06 The financial and emotional cost of moving money
17:01 Why successful men need expert guidance
19:00 Infidelity, intimacy, and warning signs in marriage
21:08 Resentment and sexless marriages
22:33 What happens during a family law intake
24:01 Privacy and revealing difficult information
24:38 Why your attorney needs to know the skeletons
26:51 Preparing strategically for difficult issues
27:37 Divorce, workaholism, and losing connection with your children
31:19 Gray divorce later in life
32:21 How changing your behavior changes the relationship
34:01 Self-leadership when your marriage is on the edge
If your marriage is struggling and you've lost some of the love, admiration, or respect you once had, Doug offers A Man's Guide on How to Save Your Marriage Without Talking About It as a practical action plan.
Prefer to watch instead of listen? Watch the full conversation on YouTube: https://youtu.be/DrbubtX3yTI
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