What does sleep have to do with faith and recovery? More than you'd think. Tanya sits down with Dr. Ben Long to explore the surprising connection between sleeplessness and the character of God — and why your restless nights might be an invitation rather than a problem.
Key Points
- Sleep deprivation is epidemic in medicine, the military, and recovery communities — but the Bible has addressed sleeplessness since the Psalms
- Psalm 127 reframes sleep not as lost productivity, but as a gift God gives His beloved — a direct challenge to hustle culture
- The Psalms trace a full arc: David sleeping amid enemies (Ps. 3), flooding his bed with tears (Ps. 6), and singing for joy (Ps. 150) — sleeplessness is seasonal, not a sign of weak faith
- Dr. Long's concept of "embodied trust" — sleep as a physical act of releasing control to God, practiced repeatedly over time
- Elijah under the juniper tree: God's response to burnout was rest and food, not a rebuke — a model for caregivers and family members in recovery situations
- The Exodus cloak law: God commands that the poor man's cloak be returned so he may sleep — sleeplessness is a justice issue, not just a personal one
- For families affected by addiction: the person using often has no awareness of how their behavior disrupts others' sleep — and caregivers have both the right and responsibility to protect their own rest
- Dreams: scientifically linked to memory consolidation and learning; theologically, a picture of dependence on God for things we cannot control
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia (CBT-I) is the gold-standard treatment — Dr. Long's journal integrates its five core rules with scripture, prayer, and journaling
- The five "sleepless night rules": cease before bed and wait to feel sleepy / rise if you can't sleep / connect with God and wait / repeat / resist naps
Resources & Links
- Sleep Habits Journal: Practices, Prayers, and Devotions to Ease Your Sleepless Night — https://thewholeheartedmd.com/sleep-habits-journal/
- Dr. Long's website: thewholeheartedmd.com
- Substack (sleep science + Bible deep dives): https://benjaminlongmd.substack.com/
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Are you caught in the chaos of addiction, constantly cleaning up emotional, spiritual, and physical messes that aren't yours? Welcome to Faith Over Addiction, where faith meets real life. Hosted by Family Recovery Coach Tanya Gioia, this podcast is designed to offer Christian women hope, healing, and practical tools to navigate the challenges of loving someone with addiction.
Through biblical truths, heartfelt stories, and actionable guidance, you’ll learn how to set healthy boundaries, find peace in the mess, and reclaim your God-given identity. You don’t have to carry what was never meant to be yours. It’s time to shift from “this is happening to me” to “this is happening for me,” and let God transform the chaos into something that glorifies Him.
Every week, I’m here to encourage you, offer clarity, and remind you that as a daughter of the King, You Always Have Other Options (YAHOO). Together, we’ll embrace faith as the foundation, boundaries as the bridge to healing, and God’s truth as the ultimate guide to freedom, strength, and grace.
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Released: 2024