EP. 395: Chris Davids: You Think It’s Love. It Isn’t.

Chris Davids is a dating and relationship specialist whose work sits at the intersection of attachment science, self-awareness, and human behavior.

This conversation challenged some of the most romanticized ideas we carry about love. We examine why chemistry isn't always compatibility, why intense feelings can be mistaken for certainty, and how our attachment patterns quietly shape the relationships we choose, protect, sabotage, or stay in. What struck me most was Chris's insistence that love is less about what we feel in a moment and more about what we repeatedly choose.

We also went deeper into trust, nervous system regulation, hyper-independence, boundaries, and the stories we tell ourselves when we're afraid to be seen. Ultimately, this conversation is an invitation to understand yourself more honestly—because the quality of your relationships will rarely exceed the quality of your relationship with yourself.

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