In this episode, somatic practitioner Dolly Josette (aka The Pleasure Muse) is teaching us something that changed my life… how to actually listen to what our bodies are trying to tell us. We walk through a body anchor meditation to help you find your most grounded position, then move into what Dolly calls the vulva hug and cock cradle, a practice that has nothing to do with arousal and everything to do with presence, safety, and building trust with your own body. If you've ever felt disconnected from your body, gone numb during sex, or struggled to know what you actually want, this episode is your foundation. Somatic work like this is how we learn to stop performing and start truly feeling, and it's a practice you can bring into your life daily, not just in the bedroom!
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Chapters:
0:00 Welcome to Sex with Emily
2:23 Meet Dolly Josette & What Is Somatic Work?
4:07 Embodiment & Sexual Connection
10:56 The Holy Trinity: Body, Mind & Soul
13:07 Body Anchor Meditation
26:22 The Vulva Hug & Cradle Practices
35:08 How This Practice Changes Intimacy
41:32 Overcoming Shame Around Your Body
45:13 How Somatic Work Changes Relationships
49:45 The Power of the Pause
51:17 Why Daily Embodiment Matter
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