His ex-wife kept calling and texting during their vacation—not about the children, but asking for pictures and updates. After a year together, his girlfriend says the ex-wife still doesn’t know their relationship exists.
She comes to the microphone asking whether she should feel some type of way. But when the panel asks about vacation photos, she explains that he’s “not a picture guy”—even though his ex is requesting pictures and he takes their couple photos on her phone.
Then she reveals she hasn’t met his children either. The panel challenges the difference between keeping a relationship private and keeping someone a secret, while she admits she’s holding on to the potential of things working out.
What follows is a direct conversation about unresolved attachments, making excuses for red flags, and choosing yourself before you lose more time waiting to be chosen.
Where’s the line between respecting a co-parenting relationship and allowing yourself to be kept a secret?
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