Episode 8. Delayed Ejaculation, Spanking & Long-Distance Intimacy

Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community:

• Why does my boyfriend take so long to finish — and does it mean I’m doing something wrong?
• I really like being spanked. Why do I enjoy it, and how do I tell a new partner I want it?
• I’m in a long-distance relationship. How do we keep the sexual intensity and connection alive when we’re apart?

A relaxed, honest conversation about delayed ejaculation, performance pressure, sensation and arousal, spanking, trust, consent, long-distance intimacy, anticipation, communication and keeping connection alive between visits.

No judgement. No awkwardness. Just real questions and real conversation.

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