Self-regulation before communication: Why you can't talk through a fried nervous system — and what "getting yourself right" actually looks like before a hard conversation happens.
The email rule: How writing instead of talking transformed the worst season of Jackie and her husband's marriage, and why the format matters as much as the content.
Microwave vs. crockpot: What happens when two people process emotions at completely different speeds — and how to stop mistaking slow processing for passive aggression.
Tell me more: The practical shift from "why are you being so difficult" to getting curious, and why it works especially when neither person is actually wrong.
Marriage on autopilot: How couples quietly lose the fact that they like each other, and what scheduling intentional fun actually gives back.
If the standard marriage advice has ever felt like it was written for someone else's brain — or someone else's relationship — this conversation is worth your time. Jackie makes a genuine case that building structure into a marriage isn't the opposite of romance. It's what makes room for it. Grab So You Married a Human wherever books are sold.
Podden och tillhörande omslagsbild på den här sidan tillhör
Erik Fisher. Innehållet i podden är skapat av Erik Fisher och inte av,
eller tillsammans med, Poddtoppen.