He does oral sex almost every time. Toys every time. Bondage, spanking, dirty talk — all things he pushed through because she wanted them. She agreed to reciprocate. She hasn't. Not once.

So is he being selfish for wanting more?

That's not quite the right question.

The real question is what the word return reveals about what's actually been going on. Corey and Pam unpack the difference between genuine generosity and giving to get — why they look similar from the outside, why your spouse can always tell the difference, and what a ledger does to intimacy over time.

Plus — what's her side of this? What does it mean that she said she would and didn't? And what would it take for both of them to stop keeping score?

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