Could a secret struggle be contributing to your child's spiritual apathy? Even kids who seem obedient, responsible, and spiritually healthy can carry hidden struggles they are afraid or ashamed to share with their parents.
In this episode of Family Vision, Dr. Rob Rienow helps parents understand why sin thrives in secrecy and how they can create a relationship where their children feel safe bringing struggles into the light. Rob addresses three common areas of hidden struggle—sexual sin, drugs and alcohol, and anger and unforgiveness—and encourages parents to pursue honest, ongoing conversations with their children rather than assuming everything is fine.
What You'll Learn in This Episode:
- Why even "good kids" can be carrying significant struggles in secret
- How secrecy, shame, and spiritual apathy can become connected in a child's life
- Why parents need ongoing, age-appropriate conversations with their children about sexuality
- Why parents should take potential drug and alcohol use seriously rather than assuming their child would never experiment
- How unresolved anger, bitterness, and unforgiveness can become hidden spiritual burdens
- How to respond with love, gratitude, and biblical guidance when your child has the courage to confess a struggle
Featured Resources:
Five Reasons for Spiritual Apathy in Teens and What Parents Can Do to Help — Rob and Amy Rienow explore common reasons teenagers become spiritually disengaged and offer biblical guidance to help parents respond with wisdom and intentionality. Learn more at https://visionaryfam.com.
Visionary Parenting — Discover a biblical vision for parenting and practical ways to disciple your children and help them follow Jesus. Start reading for free: https://visionaryfam.com/parenting
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