Should husbands and wives always share their phone locations with each other? Is location sharing a healthy expression of trust and transparency, or can it become a form of control? A simple Facebook post from Rob Rienow sparked a surprisingly passionate debate about privacy, technology, and marriage.
In this episode of Family Vision, Rob and Amy Rienow explore why a question about phone settings can reveal much deeper issues in a marriage. They discuss the difference between the surface-level disagreements couples experience and the underlying emotions, fears, and trust issues that often drive those conflicts.
Drawing from their recent teaching at the Great Marriage Getaway, Rob and Amy share practical ways to communicate more openly, recognize hidden relationship struggles, and pursue the biblical vision of oneness in marriage. Whether you and your spouse already share your locations or have never considered it, this conversation will encourage you to examine the trust, communication, and transparency in your relationship.
What You'll Learn in This Episode:
- Why Rob's Facebook post about spouses sharing their locations sparked so much controversy
- How sharing your plans and whereabouts can demonstrate consideration and respect for your spouse
- The difference between surface-level disagreements and the deeper emotions underneath them
- Why location sharing can reveal unresolved issues involving trust, control, or secrecy
- How to communicate underlying feelings instead of responding with criticism or sarcasm
- Why Rob and Amy believe transparency with finances, passwords, and digital accounts supports biblical oneness
- How to approach location sharing as a conversation about trust rather than simply a technology setting
Featured Resources:
Visionary Marriage — Discover God's design for marriage and practical ways to build a relationship centered on biblical oneness, trust, and unity. Start reading the first 40 pages for free: https://visionaryfam.com/marriage.
Upcoming Events — Join Rob and Amy at upcoming Visionary Family events, including the Visionary Family Conference in Pasadena, California, and the Visionary Family Thanksgiving Ball in the Chicago area. View event details at https://visionaryfam.com/events.
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