Avoiding Manipulative Dating Patterns: Tarot, Chakras, Astrology & Human Design Reading (Inner Terrain)
On Called and Her Daddy, hosts Sarai Johnson (somatic sexologist/witch) and Meredith Holley (astrologer/human design reader/witch) give their friend Cinnamon Girl an “Inner Terrain” tarot-and-chakra reading blended with astrology and human design to address how to stay open in dating while recognizing and avoiding manipulative, narcissistic dynamics. Sarai pulls tarot and describes chakra landscapes and animal guides (lioness at the root, toucan in the sacral, frog in the solar plexus, black bear at a fiery heart canyon, rabbit in redwoods at the throat, sunglasses at the third eye, lightning in the crown), emphasizing self-trust, celebrating progress, agency, and releasing self-imposed traps. Meredith connects themes to Cinnamon Girl’s chart (Aries–Libra interception, authenticity and anger, partnership boundaries, T-square, current transits and an upcoming second Saturn return) and her human design (generator with emotional authority), highlighting boundaries, believing actions over words, processing emotions without over-rationalizing, and partnering with oneself.
Sarai used the Fifth Spirit Tarot deck for this reading.
00:00 Welcome and Setup
01:15 Cinnamon Girl Question
04:00 Theme Card Six of Wands
06:26 Root Chakra Lioness
09:52 Sacral Jungle Toucan
11:15 Solar Plexus Frog Lovers
13:17 Heart Fire Black Bear
18:35 Throat Redwoods Rabbit
19:57 Third Eye Sunglasses
22:55 Crown Lightning Four Cups
28:45 Trust Your Intuition
32:24 Astrology Interception Aries
37:16 Rage Fear and Signals
39:31 Anger and Racial Stereotypes
40:27 Lightning Anger in Action
42:42 T-Square Power and Boundaries
44:55 Dating Anger and Self Trust
47:37 Transits North Node Spotlight
52:56 Manipulation Neptune and Receipts
56:36 Systemic Racism Dealbreakers
01:00:42 Human Design Emotional Waves
01:08:42 Code Switching and Adaptability
01:15:00 Saturn Return Transformation
01:17:45 Self Dating and Closing Plugs
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Work with Sarai: saraijohnson.com
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