In this episode, Tayla shares her two postpartum experiences, including recovering from caesarean births, choosing to formula feed, navigating postpartum anxiety and returning to paid work earlier than she had hoped.
We discuss:
Finding out unexpectedly that she was pregnant with her first daughter, Emily
Becoming a mother without a relationship with her own mum
The enormous support Tayla has received from her mother-in-law
Preparing for a planned caesarean and worrying about physical recovery
Meeting Emily for the first time
The challenges of those first days in hospital and adjusting to caring for a newborn
Recovering physically from a caesarean birth
Tayla's decision to formula feed both of her children
The judgement and pressure she experienced around her feeding choices
Navigating conflicting feeding advice and concerns about Emily's weight gain
Learning to trust her instincts as a first-time mum
Experiencing anxiety during her first postpartum season
Returning to paid work when Emily was just under three months old
Navigating daycare and adjusting to being away from her baby
Preparing for postpartum with a second baby
Maintaining Emily's routine during the transition from one child to two
Practical postpartum preparation, including meal preparation and creating a calm home environment
Meeting Paul and recovering from a second caesarean
Feeling much more confident as a mother the second time around
Watching Emily meet her baby brother for the first time
The challenges of adjusting to life with two young children
Feeling a temporary change in her relationship with Emily after Paul's arrival
Paul becoming seriously unwell at just 10 days old and requiring hospital care
How this experience contributed to significant postpartum anxiety
Paul being admitted to hospital again with RSV at 10 weeks old
Experiencing prolonged postpartum bleeding and the anxiety surrounding her recovery
Struggling with sleep, withdrawing from the outside world and feeling increasingly anxious
Why Tayla wishes she had sought mental health support earlier
The importance of opening up to trusted friends and family
How regular conversations with her husband and friends helped Tayla feel connected and supported
Returning to paid work earlier than she wanted because of financial pressures
The challenges of combining paid work, daycare and parenting two young children
Tayla's positive experience with her children's daycare
The joy of watching Emily and Paul's sibling relationship develop
Finding greater confidence in herself as a mother, partner and person
Learning who truly shows up for you during motherhood
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