What if the anxiety, shame, cravings, and negative thought loops that keep you stuck don't have to be your story forever?
In this episode of the Love Life Sober. I'm joined by my beautiful friend Jo Hargreaves, The Faith-Filled Therapist, speaker, and neuroscience expert, for a fascinating conversation about the intersection of brain science, biblical truth, and the transforming power of Jesus.
We dive into neuroplasticity (your brain's God-given ability to change), why you can't simply think your way out of an overwhelmed nervous system, and how to interrupt the thought patterns that keep sending you back to old habits and counterfeit comforts like alcohol.
Jo walks us through her practical Notice, Name, Regulate, Reframe framework, explains why what you feed your mind first thing in the morning and before bed matters, and reminds us of one beautiful truth: God isn't waiting for you to get yourself together before coming close. He's already there, even in the messiest moments.
What You'll Learn
• Why the comforts we turn to for relief, including alcohol, can become counterfeits of the freedom Jesus offers.
• What neuroplasticity teaches us about breaking old habits, rewiring negative thought patterns, and renewing our minds through God's Word.
• Why it's so difficult to resist an alcohol craving when your nervous system is dysregulated, and practical ways to calm your body before trying to change your thoughts.
• How shame and self-criticism can actually keep us stuck, and why compassion is so important for lasting change.
• What your brain's default mode network has to do with overthinking, rumination, catastrophizing, and those exhausting mental loops.
• Why worship, gratitude, prayer, and meditating on Scripture can help us feel grounded and connected to God.
• How to be more intentional about what you allow into your mind in the morning and before falling asleep.
• The beautiful promise of Psalm 139: even when you're anxious, overwhelmed, or feeling far from God, He has not moved away from you.
If You've Ever Thought...
"Why do I keep going back to alcohol when I know it's not helping me?"
"I've been thinking these negative thoughts for so long. Can I actually change?"
"I know what God's Word says, but when I'm anxious or overwhelmed, I just can't seem to believe it."
"Surely God must be getting tired of me making the same mistakes over and over again."
This episode is for you!
My beautiful friend, your past does not have to determine your future, and the thoughts you've rehearsed for years do not have to be the ones you carry into tomorrow. God has given us an incredible capacity for change, and through His Word, His grace, and the renewing of our minds, we can begin to experience the freedom Jesus has already made possible. This conversation is packed with practical wisdom, biblical encouragement, and so much hope for the woman who is ready to stop living stuck and start living free.
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