We’re officially in the two-week wait after our first IUI with donor sperm—and by the time you’re listening to this, we may or may not know if it worked.

In this episode of Unfertile & Unfiltered, we recap what our IUI actually looked like, from thawing the donor sperm and the insemination itself to progesterone, symptoms, spotting, and all the overthinking that comes with waiting for a pregnancy test.

We also talk about how surprisingly different this two-week wait has felt compared to where we were a year ago. After a year of male-factor infertility, azoospermia, fertility treatments, and eventually choosing donor sperm, there’s a little less desperation to control the outcome—and a lot more acceptance that we’ll be okay even if we get our hearts broken again.

Plus, we talk about whether we actually think Sidney is pregnant, how infertility changes the experience of announcing a pregnancy, how much the last year has changed us, and whether Matt finally feels ready to be a dad.

In this episode:

  • What our first IUI with donor sperm was actually like

  • The IUI procedure and what surprised us

  • Progesterone after IUI

  • Symptoms during the two-week wait

  • Waiting for our first beta hCG pregnancy test

  • How infertility changes your relationship with control

  • Looking back on one year of male-factor infertility

  • How infertility has changed both of us

  • Our completely different approaches to waiting for pregnancy results

  • How we’d tell our families if the IUI worked

Unfertile & Unfiltered is our honest, unfiltered conversation about male-factor infertility, azoospermia, donor conception, fertility treatment, and figuring out how to build a family when nothing goes according to plan.

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