HAPPY PRIDE! This is the last episode before we take our summer break, and I couldn't be more excited to share this one with you. It's perfect for Pride, perfect for summer, perfect for friendship, and perfect for you!
In this episode, Ben and I talk about how happiness is different from joy, but joy is what keeps us going, why you should fight in a British accent, whimsy, new friendship, Pride as a mile marker, and how we're navigating our budding new friendship.
After coming out at 15 in a small town, Ben Greene has devoted his career to spreading empathy, education, and storytelling around the trans experience. Whether it's for NASA, Johnson & Johnson, or over 200 PFLAG chapters, Ben leads with joy. He is the author of the Substack "Good Queer News", as well as the book "My Child is Trans, Now What? A Joy Centered Approach to Support". He has been nominated for a GLAAD media award and is passionate about leading with joy and educating others from a place of compassion—no matter where they're starting from.
In this episode, we get curious about:
- How pride is a mile marker that we have the honor of passing by
- Why you should fight in a British accent
- Concrete ways to bring more whimsy into your life
- How he and I are navigating our own new friendship
- Ben's brilliant two similarities tip on where to find new friends
- Why you may not always be able to choose happiness, but you can always choose joy
And how we stay hopeful in these trying times
Links
Good Queer News: https://www.goodqueernews.com/
Ben on IG: https://www.instagram.com/pseudo.bro/
Aidan on IG: https://www.instagram.com/aidanwharton
Getting Close on IG: https://www.instagram.com/aidanwharton
Chapters
(00:00) Celebrating Pride and Connection
(02:49) The Meaning of Pride
(06:00) Joy vs. Happiness
(08:48) Joy as a Tool for Resistance
(11:58) Building Connections and Community
(14:46) Navigating Vulnerability and Earnestness
(18:01) Creating Whimsy in Relationships
(29:35) Habit Stacking with Joy
(34:23) The Paradox of Choice
(38:56) Finding Hope in Despair
(45:55) Embracing Discomfort for Growth
(52:50) The Power of Community and Change