In this episode, Tom (he/him) interviews writer, comedian, coach, and Two Bi Guys host Robert Brooks Cohen (he/him) about bisexuality, late-life coming out, bi erasure, monogamy, shame, fluidity, and the hidden realities many bi men face.
They discuss why only 15% of bi men are out, why bisexuality can feel threatening to rigid social norms, and how younger generations are redefining sexuality and gender. Robert also shares insights from coaching married bi men, navigating open relationships, supporting a partner through gender transition, and the idea of “queer second adolescence” later in life.
The conversation also explores bisexual mental health, invisibility within LGBTQ+ spaces, queer hookup culture, Sniffies, and why it’s never too late to come out and live authentically.
Whether you’re bi, questioning, queer, partnered, closeted, or simply curious about sexuality and identity, this episode offers an honest, funny, and deeply validating conversation about fluidity, authenticity, and connection.
About Robert:
Robert Cohen (he/him) is a life coach, content creator, podcast host -- "Two Bi Guys (By One Bi Guy)" -- author ("Bisexual Married Men: Stories of Relationships, Acceptance and Authenticity"), former TV writer, and stand-up comedian living in Los Angeles.
Connect with Robert:
Website: www.TwoBiGuys.com
Life Coaching: www.robertbrookscohen.com Instagram: @robertbrookscohen
TikTok: @robertbrookscohen
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@twobiguys
Connect with Tom:
website: www.queerrelationshipinstitute.com
Instagram: @queerrelationshipinstitute
Get his book: https://a.co/d/0gtUEAC5
Get your FREE set of relationship discussion cards for gay men: https://www.queerrelationshipinstitute.com/cards
