EP 49: This week on Uncensored, Mx Tomie sits down with NYC-based pro dom Amalia Valentine for a wild, smart, and surprisingly funny deep dive into power, Catholic guilt, and kink lineage.
From playground dominance and early internet taboos to formal mentorship and building an intentional BDSM practice, Amalia unpacks how religion, psychology, and archival care shape her work today. They talk dom ego (“domitis”), dungeon hygiene realities, censorship moral panics, and why repression never actually kills desire.
The conversation also explores the feminist sex wars, kink history, and sex work decriminalization in NYC — plus why BDSM is basically “theater kid sex” at its best.
Humor, power, politics, and absurdity collide in this one.
For the full uncensored cut, head to Patreon.
Chapters:
00:00 – 00:55 • Cold Open: Catholic Camp & Kink Vibes
00:55 – 01:31 • Intro: Who Is Amalia Valentine?
01:31 – 05:53 Origin Story: From Tomboy Terror to Pro Dom
05:53 – 10:00 Mentorship vs. Dungeon: How She Was Trained
10:00 – 13:39 Childhood Power Plays & Early Dominance
13:39 – 18:35 Growing Up Catholic: Guilt, Masochism & Kink
18:35 – 22:56 God Complex, Domitis & Staying Grounded
22:56 – 27:05 Hygiene, Dungeon Rugs & Behind-the-Scenes Labor
27:05 – 32:33 Early Internet Porn, Disgust/Desire & Taboo
32:33 – 41:39 Censorship, Kids, & Moral Panics
41:39 – 45:25 Archiving Kink: Feminist Sex Wars & Lineage
45:25 – 50:04 DecrimNY & Sex Work Decriminalization in NYC
50:04 – 53:10 Humor in BDSM: Theater Kid Sex & Play
53:10 – 55:44 Looney Tunes Kink: The Anal Birth Birthday Scene
55:44 – 57:37 Funniest Session Stories: Bananas, Fisting & Improv
57:37 – 01:00:03 Quickfire Round
01:00:03 – 01:01:27 What “Uncensored” Really Means + Patreon Pitch
01:01:27 – 01:01:45 Outro & Socials
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