I've told men for years: stay healthy, stay single. But if you're going to get married anyway, you better know what you're walking into first. Most men enter marriage with zero situational awareness — like a kid playing football against seasoned veterans. They get hit from every direction, humiliated, and left wondering what just happened. Sound familiar? Sign Up for Coaching Today or grab a copy of my book at https://johnsgriffin.com In this video, I break down: → Why guys under 30 should NOT be rushing to the altar → The "simp industrial complex" — how society brainwashes men into thinking they need a woman → Why the euphoria you feel early on isn't love (and how long real love actually takes to develop) → The non-negotiable list every man needs before he even starts dating → How to spot narcissistic behavior vs. normal female behavior — and why the difference matters more than you think → The #1 trade men make that destroys marriages: choosing pretty over good character Finding the woman is the easy part. Staying married? That's where 90% of guys fail. If you're serious about doing this the right way — or you're just trying to survive the process — this video will save you years of pain. 🔔 Subscribe for more no-BS relationship insights for men. 💬 Coaching available at johnsgriffin.com/coaching #Relationships #Marriage #DatingAdvice #MensMindset #RedPill #SelfImprovement Join The Life 2.0 Community: johnsgriffin.com You can get Life 2.0 merchandise featuring Debu the dog here: https://johnsgriffin.com/shop Find all the equipment I use at my Amazon Store: https://a.co/d/0fWwzY5Z Sign Up for Coaching Today or grab a copy of my book at https://johnsgriffin.com https://john-griffin-shop.fourthwall.com For Life 2.0 Merchandise! APPLE POD CASTS: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/john-griffin-life-2-0/id1850311400 SPOTIFY POD CASTS: https://open.spotify.com/show/64h436l3vdzLJba9O76wcS?si=0Ign58gGSo2TV30fuNRS_g Join this channel to get access to perks: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGeYqbpkEVeYu_sRAGWGwpQ/join Harness Buddy dog harness as seen on Shelby and Jax: https://harnessbuddy.com/products/harnessbuddy?ref=qclugmwe ⚠️ Disclaimer: I do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research. Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialogue, music, and images that are the Intellectual Property of John Griffin, (Life 2.0) Health Coach & Personal Trainer. Please contact John Griffin if you wish to use this content in any way. Any unauthorized use of this content will be a violation of my copyright. © John Griffin, Coach www.johnsgriffin.com 0:00 Navigating the Modern Dating Landscape 0:48 Lessons from the Football Field 2:42 The Dangers of Being Under Thirty 6:23 Breaking Free from Romantic Myths 10:00 Defining Your Relationship Goals 22:29 Protecting Your Core Values All the content is from the mind of John S. Griffin and can also be found on: YouTube @john-Griffin. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JohnSGriffinHealthCoach/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/johngriffin2.0/ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising. Rss