Episode 27: Victimhood: What Happened to Us and What We Carry with Bertold Ulsamer
Once again, I'm thrilled to sit down with Bertold Ulsamer, whose presence always reminds me to drop into my body.
This time, we explore victimhood — the difference between being a victim of something that happened to us and living with the feeling of being a victim.
What about the things that didn't happen to us? The love, attention, or protection we needed but didn't receive?
We talk about anger, blame, responsibility, childhood wounds, and what we may carry from previous generations. Bertold also shares why we shouldn't rush into forgiveness and why remembering the past isn't always necessary to move forward.
And we get to experience something special: a spontaneous demonstration of Bertold's work with inner imaging, offering a glimpse into his gentle, curious way of exploring what is present.
How can we acknowledge what happened to us while also turning toward life?
This episode marks one year of You, Me & the Family Tree! Thank you for listening and being part of these conversations.
I'd love to hear what resonates with you.
Bertold Ulsamer
https://www.ulsamer.com
Work With Me — Iris Shaham
I offer individual Family Constellations sessions and small group circles, as well as a free 20-minute introductory call.
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