Becoming the Woman You Were Always Meant to Be (One Haircut at a Time)

This week’s episode is brought to you by Mercury-in-retrograde-level chaos, bad sleep, and one very life-changing bob. I talk about how cutting my hair didn’t just change my face, it changed my identity, my confidence, and the way I move through the world when I’m no longer performing for the male gaze. We go into why so many of our choices – careers, bodies, hair, even sex – quietly orbit around being “chosen,” and what happens when you flip the script and start asking one simple question instead: Do I actually like this? If you’re in your 20s, 30s or 40s drowning in shitty jobs, shitty relationships, body pressure and auditioning for love, this is your reminder that the real prize at the end of the tunnel is you.