Pour yourself something warm, darlings, because I recorded this one at stupid o'clock with the gorgeous Lily Rosa, a full service sex worker based very proudly in Scotland. We talk about reclaiming words like whore, slut and queer, and why swearing is part of Lily's Scottish culture. Lily opens up about Catholic guilt, sexual trauma, getting sober and three celibate years spent with her beloved smut, before her very first client gave her an orgasm free of shame. We talk about the slow, sensual touching we both adore, male loneliness and the stigma sex workers face. I share my cross-dressing stories, ADHD and a deeply personal story about my first girlfriend. Lily leaves us with her advice on letting your freak flag fly.


  • 00:00:00 Quickfire knickers, heels and smut
  • 00:04:35 Reclaiming the word whore
  • 00:08:02 Billy Connolly, swearing and queer
  • 00:15:35 Shame, guilt and the AIDS era
  • 00:19:52 Celibacy, therapy and first clients
  • 00:29:37 Life coach and girlfriend experience
  • 00:33:18 Sex workers as the village witch
  • 00:45:08 Male loneliness and violent men
  • 00:53:34 My first girlfriend and Rocky Horror
  • 01:03:30 Generations, the survey and humiliation
  • 01:16:17 ADHD as a superpower
  • 01:22:29 Let your freak flag fly

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