Behind every great leader is a powerful vision, but how do you ensure that your message actually lands when the stakes are at their highest?
In this episode, executive voice and presence coach Daidree Tofano dives deep into how leaders can master the tool they use every single day: their own voice. Drawing from her fascinating, non-linear career path, Daidree shares her unique inside-out philosophy for conquering high-pressure speaking moments. You'll learn how to shift your mindset, step away from your script, and actively use your body and breath to command authority and connect authentically with any audience.
Key Takeaways
True executive presence requires sharpening your physical instrument—your body, breath, and voice—rather than just focusing on your slide deck or written content.
Managing high-stakes speaking anxiety requires building deep physical awareness of your internal tension and your breath before you even open your mouth.
Presenting effectively on camera is a distinct skill set from speaking in person, demanding fewer physical movements and a direct, consistent connection with the lens.
Great speakers command authority not by rushing, but by intentionally embracing silence, pausing, and physically claiming their environment
Episode Quotes
"A lot of communications coaching is all around what you say, your content. I look at the instrument that delivers it: the how you say it."
"I help leaders, specifically in really high-stakes moments, show up as the best version of themselves and the most persuasive version of themselves."
"People don't want to take up space. They don't want to take up physical space, they don't want to take up vocal space... I think that is one of the biggest turnarounds that people can make."
"We're all kind of like brains on a stick walking around, and we're in our heads and then we completely forget about the body."
VALUABLE RESOURCES
● LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/daidreetofano/
● Website www.impactvoicecoaching.com
HOST BIO
Brad Staines is a founder in the thick of it - but by design, not by default. As the face of Aquamark Cleaning, he’s built a multi-million-pound operation with 30+ team members, strong systems, and a culture that gives people space to grow.
He’s still involved in the business a couple of days a week - but only doing the parts he genuinely enjoys: building relationships, growing the brand, spending time with the team, and spotting new opportunities. The day-to-day grind? That’s been handed over to a structure that runs without constant firefighting.
Brad’s also found his rhythm outside of business - with a deep commitment to physical and mental training. Whether it’s strength work, early morning runs, or cold plunges, he’s a believer that how you show up for yourself shapes how you show up as a leader.
Working On It is where he brings it all together - growth, grit, and getting better every week.
