Ten Week Integration Reset — Week 9: Looking Back with Kindness and Accuracy

Week 9, and the Ten-Week Integration Reset is coming in for a landing. Before looking ahead to the finish, Cam turns the lens backward — because for people with ADHD, looking back can go sideways fast: unkind, distorted, inaccurate. This episode is about developing a kinder, more accurate view of the last nine weeks.

Cam names the usual suspects who show up uninvited when we review our own history — the judge, the big-signal hunter, the meaning-maker, and a new addition: the scribe, who quietly reinforces the same tired story ("here we are again, off the rails"). Rather than banishing these characters, Cam suggests giving them a seat at the kids' table, or a spot in the sidecar — acknowledged, but not driving. In their place: discernment instead of judgment, curiosity instead of a verdict, learning more than results.

The episode moves through real reflection — patterns of committing and releasing commitment, the saboteurs that resurface in new disguises, the whispers of a calling that ADHD often obscures. And it closes with an unusually direct question worth sitting with: what's the progress you're not seeing or appreciating, simply because it doesn't look like a big, dramatic win?