Coached pushing is not the harmless “help” birth spaces make it out to be. Kemi Birthjoy Johnson and Shellie break down why shouting at women to bear down, breathe on command, and push through every contraction can work against physiology, increase trauma, and make outcomes worse for both mothers and babies.

Together, they expose the history behind coached pushing, what it actually does to the body, and why “purple pushing” became so embedded in maternity care in the first place. From the Ferguson reflex and pelvic floor mechanics to blood flow, oxygenation, and the impact of position, this episode makes the case for why instinctive, undisturbed pushing deserves far more respect. You’ll discover:

  • What physiological pushing actually looks and feels like
  • Why coached Valsalva pushing can reduce oxygen flow to the uterus and baby
  • How lithotomy and back-lying positions change the mechanics of birth
  • What the research says about second-stage length, Apgar scores, NICU admission, perineal injury, and incontinence
  • Why the “two-hour rule” is a poor substitute for real assessment
  • How epidurals change the picture, and where coaching still fails to show clear benefit


Kemi and Shellie also trace the origins of coached pushing back to mid-20th-century obstetric ideology, showing how convenience, control, and outdated assumptions got baked into practice. They challenge the idea that women need to be told how to birth and make a compelling case for listening to the body, not the room full of people shouting over it.

If you’ve ever wondered whether all that directing actually helps, or if you’ve felt that birth spaces too often confuse intervention with care, this conversation is essential listening. It’s sharp, fiery, evidence-backed, and deeply committed to one thing: protecting women’s autonomy at the moment it matters most.


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